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Is your marriage over? Here are some indicators

Married couples in Jersey City may find it hard to determine when a marriage is over. Some experts estimate divorce rates at proportions as high as 50 percent, so it could be beneficial to better understand some signals that may indicate the end could be on the horizon.

Ask yourself this question: Are you angry all of the time? If so, and you believe it to be caused by your spouse, it may be time to determine what it is that makes you so angry. If you cannot deal with this anger and you allow it to accumulate, your love for your spouse will likely disintegrate. Imagine both spouses feeling this way and you can easily see how this could lead to divorce.

Consider that anger again -- do you take it out on your spouse by belittling him or her with insults and personal attacks? Instead of you being the one dishing out the put-downs, you may be the victim. This sort of behavior is embarrassing and hurtful towards the person that it is directed at and can easily contribute to the end of a marriage. Depending on the severity, this could be considered emotional abuse and it may become a factor during divorce proceedings.

Most experts agree -- a successful marriage begins with solid communication. If you and your spouse are no longer opening communicating with one another, conversing about day-to-day things as well as more important personal topics, it may be time to move on. The emotional bond that can be created through communicating with one another is something that many relationships thrive on. Without communication, the happiness of a couple is likely to take a nosedive.

Other warning signs may include:

  • A diminished sex life
  • The unwillingness to compromise with your partner
  • Infidelity
  • Feeling ignored and/or neglected by your spouse
  • Financial problems

Many of these indicators may seem obvious, but far too few individuals realize that these issues are occurring and can lead to divorce quickly if they are not addressed. If you feel that any of these apply to your marriage, be sure to begin communicating your concerns with your spouse. If that fails, it may be time for you to call it quits.

Source: Huffington Post, "'Should I Divorce?' 10 Ways To Tell If Your Marriage Is Over," Evelyn Moschetta and Paul Moschetta, May 24, 2012

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